I almost can’t wait ‘till the holiday season is over. It’s not because I don’t enjoy the season and all what goes with it.
It is because it is getting harder and harder for me to cope with going out and having people that I don't have the slightest clue who they are coming up to me and saying Hi to me.
I think that I have a pretty decent memory. I can remember all my friends names and most people I come in contact with on a semi regular base. I mean it's not like I'm coming down with a case of Alzheimer’s . But it almost feels like I do when these people come up to me.
It’s strange. Most of them seem to know me from some place in time but for the life of me I can’t seem to place them.
Sometimes I can pull of pretending I know the person. The conversation goes something like this:
Person:
” Rich”! Or ” Hi. How are you”-.
Me.:
“Hi”. (As I am thinking to myself how do they know me and where do I know this person from).
Usually you can get by with a Hi or a how are you. Then after a few seconds of awkward silence they walk away and you’re left thinking that they must think you are some sort of jerk.
It's funny that I can sometimes place them a minute or so after they ‘re gone.
Most of the time It turns out either it's someone I once played hoops with long ago or maybe it’s an old girlfriend of a person I haven’t seen in years. Or it could be someone who recognizes me from the inn or around town.
I guess the solution would for me to just say, I'm sorry but I don’t remember you. What ‘s your name and how do you know me. That just sounds bad.
Most people who come up to you just want some sort of sign that you recognize them.
My solution would be for everyone to wear name tags when they go out to bars. This would really help. I know that I’d probably have a fake name on my tag but at least the other person would have a name tag and at least I could say their name and pretend better that I know them.
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